Honoring Healthy Boundaries
"Who may ascend into the hill of the LORD? Or who may stand in His holy place? He who has clean hands and a pure heart, who has not lifted up his soul to an idol." — Psalm 24:3-4
What is mine to protect, what is mine to carry, and what is neither? Your time, your marriage, your children — if you don't decide what you're carrying, someone else will happily decide for you. Picture a wallet lying in the middle of a room versus that same wallet locked in a vault with guards standing in front of it: nothing about the wallet changed, only the protection around it — and the protection is what told you what it was worth.
In Honoring Healthy Boundaries, Pastor Mark draws from Exodus 18, Psalm 24, and Galatians 6 to show that a boundary isn't the opposite of love — it's how you keep the weight where God assigned it, so the gate He's waiting at is the one that opens first. You'll learn the difference between a burden you're called to help carry and a load that was never yours, and two simple tools for saying it out loud without turning it into an ultimatum.